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Jennifer E. Thomas
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It's almost like there are these periods where our relationship is smooth and steady, and then there are times when it's like standing on the edge of this gorgeous, wonderful waterfall and just letting yourself drop, knowing that there's a safe pool of water ready to catch you at bottom. You take the plunge and you're in wayyyy over your head, but oh man, it's exhilarating, it's breathtaking, it's just incredible and you feel better than you ever have before and the water is cool and refreshing and exactly what you needed.

Sam is my waterfall.

- LJ entry from 8/2005


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Tonight I deleted about a half dozen people from my f-list, not out of anger, except for one of them (and that person's spouse), but out of being sure that my private posts stay private. Those removed hopefully understand my caution.

Tonight has been so busy I haven't had a chance to post about this, but I need to say this:

I only deleted people until I could get a chance to talk to them personally and feel reassured that they'll respect my f-locked posts. I just need the reassurance right now, for many reasons, not the least is that my f-list has access to my home address and phone number.

I have no lies to hide, and other than this post, I won't be posting about this entire fucked up situation. I won't go into detail in this post, or in response comments.

The one person and spouse won't be re-friended, because I can't deal with the person, and spouses DO tell each other pretty much everything.

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as i said in the private message, I never pass on what i see in private locked posts. it would be a disgrace and a dishonor.

*Hug back*
and i AM sorry about the whole #callahans debacle. which is the last thing i will say on that subject.

Same here. I don't even intend to post about it.

I can understand why you'd do that. It just kind of hurts because on one level it feels like you don't trust me. I don't share people's personal private information. I never have and I never will.

If a trusted friend hadn't relayed a complete conversation tonight to the person in question, I wouldn't be so paranoid. :(

Adding you back.

I hope that I don't worry you. I consider LJ like a conversation I'm having with friends. What one tells me, doesn't get repeated to another.

Nope, had nothing to do with you, darlin' :) IRC crap.

You're like the third person on my flist in as many weeks to have this problem. WTF is WRONG with people that they'd repeat obviously private info?????

Like my icon says... ;)

Oh, hmm. This leaves me with a major blonde moment because I don't see any locked posts and have no clue what you're talking about, so I must one one of the removed people! Sorry, I would never share anything you post, I love you dearly. :)

You are NOT one of them, i rarely lock posts, but when I do they matter :)

Well, I'm hoping all of this passes quickly. I will be up front and say that I am a friend of both parties involved but I do not share journal post info... ever. (and hope no one shares what is written in mine with other people. Not you, but in general.)


My attitude on gossip: Good news is shared with all joy. Other stuff goes no where.

So, if you win the lottery, I'll tell the world (the IRS already knows).
You're knocked up and need money no one needs to know (unless they have buckets of money to part with, and then only Very discretely.)

oh hi :)