What are your middle names?
Mine is Ellen, his is Preston.
How long have you been together?
Since April 10, 2004. We first used the LOVE word on April 18.
How long did you know each other before you started dating?
We're an internet couple. We met online, fell in love on the phone, a month and a half later he came to visit me, but we were already engaged by then, and married a couple of months after that.
Who asked who out?
It was pretty mutual, but I told him to marry me.
How old are each of you?
I'm 44, Sam is 42
Whose siblings do/did you see the most?
His. I haven't seen my sister in nearly ten years.
Do you have any children together?
Four his, two mine, all ours.
What about pets?
Cat, dog, five birds
Did you go to the same school?
Hahaha! It is to laugh!
Are you from the same home town?
Who is the smartest?
Who is the most sensitive?
Sam. He can be very emotionally fragile.
Where do you eat out most as a couple?
Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
From San Francisco to San Antonio.
Who has the Craziest ex?
Oh, me by far. I'd say a sexually/emotionally abusive second husband is definitely crazy, especially when you look at his life NOW.
Who has the worst temper?
That would usually be me. It takes a LOT to get Sam mad, but when he does we get holes in the drywall.
Who does the cooking?
We tend to cook together.
Who is more social?
Who is the neat-freak?
What is a neat freak?
Who is the more stubborn?
Who hogs the bed?
Who wakes up earlier?
That varies, but often Sam.
Where was your first date?
Um. My bed?
Who has the bigger family?
Do you get flowers often?
How do you spend the holidays?
At home with the kids. Sometimes in San Antonio with Sam's folks.
Who is more jealous?
Sam. For some reason he thinks other men actually WANT me. Weird.
What is "your song"?
It used to be "Helplessly Hoping" but that doesn't suit us any more. :)
How long did it take to get serious?
A few days.
Who eats more?
I eat more per meal, he eats more frequently. I think it works out about even.
Who does/did the laundry?
Sam, I can't reach into the washer.
Who’s better with the computer?
Sam. He's my geek!
Who drives when you are together?
Sam. I don't know how!