I interviewed Sam.. here's what he said:
1. What is something I always say to you?
2. What makes me happy?
When the kids behave and things are going well. Moving into a new house. The red carnations I get you, white chocolate truffles sometimes.
3. What makes me sad?
Thinking about the ex makes you angry and then sad. When we don't get along.
4. How do I make you laugh?
You just do something goofy, and you do plenty of goofy things.
5. What was I like as a child?
I'm not sure, I get the feeling you were a kind of bratty, knowitall sort of kid when you felt safe to be. Around that Debbie creature you were kind of cowed, I think. Away from those people, like when you were a teenager busking in the square you were kind of devil may care and reckless.
6. How old am I?
43 (WRONG! 44!) (Then he did the math, and he DID know my birthday and year)
7. How tall is my dad?
Uhh ummm I don't know how tall he WAS, but he doesn't have any height now. I wanna say like 5'3" or 5'4, and if that's not the case he was about my height (5'10.5") (wrong.. Dad was about 5'7")
8. What is my favorite thing to do?
You like making love, talking to me in some way that's not superficial, and making art or music, more art, you haven't done music much lately.
9. What do I do when you're not around?
Honestly and truly I think it's sleep or hide in the bedroom on the computer.
10. If I become famous, what will it be for?
Writing, art, or music, one of those three.
11. What am I really good at?
Your writing is good. I think your art is pretty good. I don't know how to judge music, but you've made some and it's pretty good. You love me.
12. What am I not very good at?
Maintaining a calm spirit.0
13. What do I do for a job?
Take care of the kids, if that isn't a job I don't know what is!
14. What is my favorite food?
Hard to pin down, a lot of different things appeal to you. What's the chick pea dip, hummus? You like turkey, you love sushi, put you in front of sushi you could impoverish me.
15. What makes you proud of me?
I'm proud of you when you keep your temper. I'm proud of your morals, I like the way you think about taking care of people and treating people. You do a pretty good job of it.
16. If I were a cartoon character, who would I be?
I don't know... *sigh* Lucy from Peanuts? She's that kind of outspoken person you are. Outspoken and doesn't generally give too much of a darn about conformity or whether she offends people.
17. What do we do together?
Talk. We do a lot of talking together. We also sit together, sleep (real sleep) together. We don't seem to go out much, we could do more of that.
18. How are you and I the same?
All the important ways is what springs to my mind, but I can't justify it, really. We each love each other, we seem to have the same views on how to treat people and how to be good to people.
19. How are you and I different?
Innumerable ways. Just lots of ways, it's hard to add them all up.
20. How do you know I love you?
Just do. You take care of me as best you can.
21. What do you like most about me?
I don't know.. maybe something as simple as that you're my wife.
22. Where is my favorite place to go?
Wherever anybody says "Don't Go There!", that's your favorite place to go. Other than that, you want to go be with Amy, or be with Bonnie and the grandkids. It's not so much the places as the people. If we're just talking places, you like Texas as good as anywhere else.