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Jennifer E. Thomas
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Waterfalls
It's almost like there are these periods where our relationship is smooth and steady, and then there are times when it's like standing on the edge of this gorgeous, wonderful waterfall and just letting yourself drop, knowing that there's a safe pool of water ready to catch you at bottom. You take the plunge and you're in wayyyy over your head, but oh man, it's exhilarating, it's breathtaking, it's just incredible and you feel better than you ever have before and the water is cool and refreshing and exactly what you needed.

Sam is my waterfall.

- LJ entry from 8/2005





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Jennifer E. Thomas [userpic]
Fed up to death.

Sean is back at his "I am overworked because I give three people a ride to their jobs each day and spend a half an hour cooking dinner out of a box and cans" bullshit, and refusing to assist me.

So I just laid down the law. He pays a very low rent for living here, in return for being my assistant and doing the driving and dinner.

I told him either his rent is doubling, or he is moving out, and one of those things is happening February 1.

If you won't pull your weight, you don't get to stay in my damn house. Period. Everybody else does their fair share around here, PLUS they work on their feet 8 hours a day. Sean is not some special flower who needs to be pampered.

Put up, shut up, or get out, kid. The time has come. Twenty-three years old and still whining like a little bitch when asked to help me get a cup of coffee.

Originally posted on http://j3nny3lf.dreamwidth.org - but you can comment either here or there. I prefer HERE!

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This is very similar to how I broke up/asked my former boyfriend to move out. He had a super sweet deal living here with me, yet he complained (very similarly) about the things he had to do. We were both increasingly frustrated and unhappy. Though it was a bit sad (more bittersweet I suppose), it was a relief. I gave him a month to move out and he made his plans to leave within a week!

For what it's worth--I think you've done the right thing.

I think you're doing the right thing, but make sure he knows it's because he's not doing his part rather than 'you don't love me any more'.

*hugs*